Is there a DOCTOR in the HOUSE?

“The door knocker thingie must be here somewhere,” I said to my oldest daughter Sarah, as we brushed  twigs, leaves and spider webs off our clothing. It was a damp and dark, but it didn’t matter. We were visiting Dr White*, an elderly gentleman who lived over the road from Gordonton Primary School. He lived by himself in a house that had seen better days. It was shrouded by overgrown trees and bushes. 

We called out together, “ Dr White! Dr White!” We knocked and waited, and waited. Shuffling and mumbling could be heard. Many locks were being undone. The door creaked slowly open and a warm smile greeted us. As usual, he offered me a cup of tea, orange juice for Sarah and some stale biscuits. Sarah remembers me giving her a father stare when she tried to palm off her half eaten biscuit under the table. I remember his fingerless gloves and toothy smile. We would visit unannounced as he was always at home. The company and conversations were worthwhile and treasured. I’m so glad we visited him as he was a good man with a welcoming, kind heart.

* Ex research scientist, Ruakura, Hamilton. 

POINTS to PONDER
Make time to visit older people. One day, YOU will be one! They are a delight to chat with. They have many stories and much wisdom to share. Like Dr White’s house look past appearances and remind yourself of lives well lived.
Don’t forget to catch-up with your parents or grandparents. Kindness starts with your own family. They aren’t getting any younger and time is precious.
If you can, take your children with you. Older people love to be with the grandies and vice versa.